Do You Remember Your First Time?

I was watching TV the other night and saw a clip showing quarterback Mark Sanchez completing his very first  pass as a starter for the USC Trojans.  With that first completion, Mark took one of the most critical steps in building up his confidence and perfecting his game.  As I watched this pass replay, I thought back to how challenging my first completed real estate transaction was. With the ink still wet on my new real estate license, I remember quickly realizing I had A LOT to learn.  I knew real estate principles back and forth, but sales training was another story.

Tell me if this sounds familiar: You decide you want to become a real estate agent. You take the real estate principles course and study your butt off thinking that the information that you’re learning will not only be vital in passing the state exam, but also in insuring that you are a successful real estate agent.  You pass the exam and can easily regurgitate the definition of an equitable estoppel and fee simple estate, only to figure out that the utility company doesn’t accept real estate definitions as a form of payment!!!  Becoming a real estate agent is easy, maybe too easy.  Becoming a successful real estate agent that is actually closing a good number of deals, that’s a completely different cup of tea.

For me, my breakthrough came by way of several sales training cassette tapes (yes it was that long ago) and  the help of a coach. In all, I’m embarrassed to say, my first closed real estate deal took me 10 months from when I received my real estate license. Once that first sale came though, my confidence grew and I slowly began to build a business that has continually grown over the last 15+ years.

How was your road to the first closed sale? How long did it take you to break the seal and close your first transaction??

24 Comments to "Do You Remember Your First Time?"

  1. May 11, 2011 - 7:52 pm | Permalink

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  2. Truthful Joe's Gravatar Truthful Joe
    May 12, 2011 - 6:24 pm | Permalink

    For me , it was about 4 months, but it felt like 4 years. I’d left a steady paycheck to take a shot at real estate and it felt like everyday I wasn’t getting a paycheck was another day of a failure. Luckily I stuck it out……and am surviving with short sales and REOs now.

  3. May 16, 2011 - 10:15 pm | Permalink

    I got sick and tired of waiting for sales and quit real estate altogether

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    May 18, 2011 - 5:19 am | Permalink

    I actually put 3 properties into escrow in first month and a half, BUT…then I made the mistake of playing babysitter and once those were closed, I had nothing for almost 5 months. =(

  8. Knordizindy's Gravatar Knordizindy
    May 18, 2011 - 7:42 am | Permalink

    Almost 8 months before I finally closed escrow on one. I had put 2 under contract and they fell out which was heart-wrenching.

  9. Penny Darvis's Gravatar Penny Darvis
    May 19, 2011 - 8:59 pm | Permalink

    6months from me – BUYERS FROM HELL!!!!! …but I made my way through it

  10. Forex Tiding's Gravatar Forex Tiding
    May 20, 2011 - 1:05 am | Permalink

    Thank you for sharing. I got my license and worked as an assistant which was great. Didn’t sell my first home completely on my own for almost 2 years!!!

  11. barry traducteur's Gravatar barry traducteur
    May 20, 2011 - 3:44 pm | Permalink

    I’m located in Covington, just outside Memphis, Tennessee. Even when the market was hot, ours wasn’t that hot. I pushed hard, and did as much as I could, but after 8 months of not even one sale, I called it quits and took a job as an assistant.

  12. Nelson Tanake's Gravatar Nelson Tanake
    May 20, 2011 - 9:48 pm | Permalink

    I’m in Salt Lake City, UT. Took me about 4months to close my first deal, but by the end of my first full year of real estate I had actually close 19 transactions and was ecstatic!

  13. Desiree Mitchell's Gravatar Desiree Mitchell
    May 25, 2011 - 10:44 pm | Permalink

    5months here.

    My first time closing a transaction wasn’t all that different from my first time kissing a boy. It was awkward, I completely over-thought it, I did the best I could but in retrospect it wasn’t very good. I was so nervous that my stomach hurt and I thought I might throw up. Finally it was over and the next time was so much easier and smoother.

  14. Tom Henry's Gravatar Tom Henry
    June 13, 2011 - 6:35 am | Permalink

    4 months or so for. I didn’t quit my day job until I had been at it for about 12months though which I think is what helped sustain me through the slower beginning months.

  15. Paul Geddy's Gravatar Paul Geddy
    June 13, 2011 - 11:42 pm | Permalink

    I’m a broker out of Georgia and the truth is a lot of these agents that are all gung-ho to get their license and sell haven’t a damn clue about what it really takes to sell. I’m sad to report that at least 30% of the new recruits our brokerage pull in, just end up quitting having never sold even one house!
    Paul

  16. Gil Brummet's Gravatar Gil Brummet
    June 15, 2011 - 4:34 pm | Permalink

    Howdy very nice site!! Getting some good laughs out of the comments posted on here.

  17. Natali B's Gravatar Natali B
    June 17, 2011 - 12:09 am | Permalink

    haha – lost my real estate virginity at the ripe age of 52. It took me 5months. Thanks for the fantastic article.

  18. Rayann Domming's Gravatar Rayann Domming
    July 3, 2011 - 1:30 am | Permalink

    2 years !!!! Kudos to everyone else who did it so fast!

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  20. Sebastian Miller's Gravatar Sebastian Miller
    August 8, 2011 - 5:52 am | Permalink

    Love the article. I’ve been at this real estate game for over 30 years now so it has been a LONG time since my first sale, but I remember it still. Seller was my uncle who agreed to let me list his home. I did open houses every Sat/Sun for 8 weeks and finally found a buyer and double ended that puppy.

  21. Babara Arnhart's Gravatar Babara Arnhart
    August 13, 2011 - 11:36 pm | Permalink

    Great article. I hadn’t given much thought to my first sale until I read this. For me….it was an uncle on my husbands side of the family that gave me a shot 2 months after I got my RE license.

  22. David Prince's Gravatar David Prince
    August 16, 2011 - 9:16 am | Permalink

    It was 1994. A warm day in Denver, CO and after a drawn out 90day escrow period…..we finally closed.

  23. Gil's Gravatar Gil
    August 16, 2011 - 10:52 am | Permalink

    For me, first transaction was easy. I got my first deal only 3 weeks into the business (i think by pure luck). The 2nd one….took 6months!!!

  24. Cary Gliceman's Gravatar Cary Gliceman
    October 23, 2011 - 5:53 am | Permalink

    First time? are we talking about real estate or something else?? LOL
    I do remember both and they were both special, awkward, and something I’d never forget.

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